Sunday 17 June 2012

How Babangida killed Maryam

Nigeria Health Watch: How Babangida killed Maryam: Dear Readers, As we continue our period of reflection on 2009...find below this thought provoking piece that was first published in Sahara...

Tuesday 5 June 2012

DECENCY A SIGN OF DIGNITY




“As Wendy Shalit was alarmed by widespread immodesty, she also notice That there were still at least some people who wore very modest clothes” These people turned out to be some of the most radiantly romantic and happily married people. Meanwhile, immodest people who flaunted their bodies and hooked up in casual sexual encounters with other people turned out to be jaded and bored. They are less happy, less romantic even less sexy. The truth is that modest people aren’t against sexuality; they value it too highly to throw around. “The more precious something is, the more it most conceals and protects itself”.

Your body and sexuality are too precious to put on display and make available to just anybody. Pastor and author Douglas Wilson says, “Many of the current fashions for young women appear to be apparel in standard use down at the local Hooker Training Academy”. Wilson’s wife, Nancy told him, “It must be difficult for men these days trying to figure out which ones they have to pay for and which ones are free”. Wise women know that if a man is worth having, he won’t be the kind that chases every flirt in a short skirt. Wise men know that if a woman is worth having, she has enough modesty and dignity to keep from making herself an object for everyone to gawk at.

If you are modest, you may certainly be attractive and have a passionate love life in marriage. If women want to be taken seriously, they must avoid clothing that’s sexually suggestive. “Be honorable to yourself if you wish to associate with honorable people”. By Stephen.

“I know of no case where a man added to his dignity by standing on it” Attributed to Winston Churchill (1874 - 1865).



Dress decently and sensibly so that people won’t look at you as a sex object or a show-off, but can focus on who you are and what you‘re able to do. Be a wise man and a wise woman and DRESS FOR SUCCESS. By. Stephen